Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts

Monday, October 15, 2012

Conference Week!

Tonight is our first evening of parent teacher conferences for this year.  I must say that the first set of conferences always makes me nervous because I don't feel like I know the families very well yet.  Of my 17 students 4 are siblings of students I've had before, so that's a plus.  

I did a full post on conferences last spring, so I'm not going to go into every little detail
but just a few short tips I have, especially if you're new to teaching.

  • Have a script - I don't mean a literal script necessarily, but have an order that you will go through everything.  My students assemble folders with everything we'll cover and we put it all in order.  It really helps with pacing and I've found that a lot of the time we cover most of the questions that parents come with.  It also ensures that you don't skip anything important.
  • Find out how your students are doing outside of your classroom and share this info with parents - This is actually kind of a new one for me, but I have some students with behavior issues, so I've found it important to keep in touch with the specials teachers.  (For example I found one student has lots of problems in PE and music, but is never in computer.)
  • Be ready to offer some solutions - If there's a problem you don't need to be able to have plans to fix it tomorrow, but have some ideas for possible solutions that you can discuss with parents.  I brought a few concerns to our school counselor last week and talked with him so that I am better prepared for conferences.  I also keep a pad of paper at the table with me so that I can take notes on anything that I can't answer or provide with them that day.
  • Be friendly - Parents are nervous about conferences too, so be friendly and welcoming.  Try not to drop any "bombs" on parents at conferences.  (If there's an issue with a student try to talk to them or send a note home beforehand and don't wait until conference week.)  I've already tried to build a relationship with the parents and guardians of my more challenging students, so conference time is more of an update for their progress and on any topics we've already discussed.
I'll try to post a bit more later  in the week and show you a glimpse of our conferences folders, but I wanted to at least share a few additional tips to what I'd posted last spring.  I really do enjoy conferences and getting to know our families a bit better, so I want to be able to help you with running effective conferences as well!

Have a great Monday!





Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Back to School Open House

Each year, my school holds an open house the evening before school starts.  It's a come-and-go event, so there's no formal meeting or presentation.  The hour totally zips by!  In preparing for the new school year, I thought I'd share my tips for hosting an open house and give you an overview of what you find in my classroom!

Ready for Open House!
  • Greet everyone!  It's completely overwhelming meeting all of the students and parents AND having past students and parents popping in to say hello!  It's sometimes hard to make sure I greet everyone, but I really do try to make my very best effort to greet everyone that steps into my classroom.  I even try to introduce myself to the siblings that come in as well.  You never know when it's going to help that you know that older brother in 5th grade or that little sister in kindergarten!
  • Give them your best first impression.  I'm not a parent, but in going to open house at my brother's school I see how first impressions of a teacher make a big impact.  Make sure your classroom is put together and that you are dressed to impress.  I think this has helped me gain the respect of my students' parents, especially being a younger teacher.  
  • Make sure the kids know they belong in your classroom.  I mean this in several ways...  Kids are always a little nervous about starting school and being in a new classroom, so I try to have everything ready with the kids names on it.  It's just one little way that I can show them that they're a part of our classroom.  
  • Ask for help.  Open house is a great time to recruit parent volunteers or other helpers.  I try to have some sort of display asking for extra supplies for the classroom.  You may also consider having a signup sheet for parents to get names of those who would be willing to help with parties, projects, or field trips.  Our room parents coordinate most of our parties, but it's still nice to have a go-to list for other events.  
  • Show off the fun you had last year!  I try to make a Photo Story of pictures from the previous school year and have it playing during the open house.  The kids from the previous year love coming in and seeing all of the pictures and the new kids love seeing what kinds of things we do in third grade.  (Photo Story is super easy to use and I'm pretty sure it's a free download on the Microsoft website.  I can usually hammer out a Photo Story in only 10 minutes if I'm really in a hurry!)  If you're not tech savvy, you could also create a Power Point or just have photos out for everyone to look at.
  • Have a parent packet ready.  I have a pretty extensive classroom handbook that covers all of our routines and procedures.  It basically explains how I run things and what to expect this year.  I have a sheet for the parents to fill out about their child and then I have them sign the sheet saying that they've read through the packet.  I know of some teachers that have had to go back and show proof they notified parents of a policy or procedure, so this is always a good idea.  
Like I said, the hour zips by super fast!  There are always those parents that want to tell you all about their child and give you their life story.  Just do your best to make the rounds and meet everyone and let them know how you can be contacted.  It's important to open up communication from the very start and make a great first impression!

Do you have any tips, hints, or suggestions for hosting an open house in your classroom?  I'd love to get some new ideas and hear how the rest of you run your open house!